Why You Need to Set Goals

What’s up everyone? This is Demetrius, and I’m back with another message. I find that am inspired to write when I’m going about my day and start to tap into my thoughts. I remember taking a college course a couple of years ago that compared having goals to taking a vacation and knowing exactly where you want to go and how you are going to get there. The alternative to this is of course hopping in your car and burning up your gas and hoping for the best. I’m sure you can tell I’m going to be talking about the importance of setting goals today.

Most people spend their whole lives basically on a hamster wheel. They don’t know what they want out of life so they chase after whatever looks cool at the moment. Or they find a short burst of motivation to better their lives but stop working towards it when they are no longer having fun doing so. This person may also wonder if the payoff in the future is worth all of the time he or she is investing in the present tense.

There are many distractions that we can place the blame on. First, we can blame the shows we watch on television. Yes we have “reality” television where the lowest quality people (Teen Mom, 16 & Pregnant, Housewives of…) get all of the recognition, but there are also shows where being extremely obese and overweight is glorified. I’m not taking shots at people who have legitimate medical conditions that prevents them from losing weight, but I have no sympathy for people who are undisciplined.

We can also look at how we spend our time. I have sources here and here that suggest that the average adult spends between 2 to 3 hours on social media per day. These sources only include platforms such as YouTube, FaceBook, and Instagram. It doesn’t even account for those of us who spend time in front of the television. It should go without saying that this time could be better spent on activities that actually bring value to our lives such as working out, reading a book, or learning a new skill.

I could keep going with this, but the point I want to drive home is that we have more control over our lives than we would like to think. Some people try to deny this because it’s easier to blame others and our circumstances than it is to blame ourselves. Blaming ourselves is painful because we all like to believe that we are high achievers and winning at life. To say contrary is to directly attack our ego, and some people can’t handle that. A better way to view the situation is to understand that we are not where we want to be (whether financially, physically, relationships, etc.) due to us not knowing what we want. This is a freeing mindset to have and allows you to take steps toward becoming who you want to be. I will have a post up later this week about how to set a goal. It will be fitness-oriented, but you can apply the information to achieving any goal because it is the same process. Let me know what you think in the comments. I’m out.


You Can’t Lie to Yourself

What’s up, readers? This is Demetrius, and I am back with another message. Today I want to talk about being real with yourself when it comes to your fitness lifestyle. There is a saying that goes, “You can lie to others, but you can’t lie to yourself”.  It means that you know who you truly are when you look yourself in the mirror at night.

I find this is even more true in present times since you can create a public image thanks to outlets such as Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. We can create a whole reality that is not based on who we really are and sell it to the public. There’s also software such as Photoshop that can help us take this process one step further by allowing us to completely edit photos.

The problem with this is that the truth eventually comes to the surface. You meet someone and you present a false image to them. A year later, they get to know the real you and make the comment, ” You have really changed”. You didn’t change, they just found out that you aren’t who you pretended to be.

Another example of this in real time is online dating sites. If you are familiar with sites such as Plenty of Fish and OkCupid, then you are probably aware that people generally try to put their best foot forward in order to make a good first impression on a potential mate. A large part of this is the pictures one puts up on his or her profile. Suppose you meet someone online and decide to meet up in person. When you meet the person, they look 5 years older or are 50 pounds heavier than they are in the pictures. You would obviously feel lied to and wonder what else this person has lied to you about.

This relates to fitness, because humans have a tendency to want to be accepted and admired by others. Again, this is why people try to sway their public perception in ways such as talking about all of the good things they are doing or by posting pictures in the gym or in their workout gear. If you’re like me you, then you have noticed that people like this aren’t consistent. They aren’t in the gym day in and day out, and in they don’t make any significant progress from a physical or performance perspective. In many cases they will come to the gym for a few days and then take a few months off.

When you are really about this life you don’t have to post endless selfies or continuously talk yourself up. Of course you might do these things to motivate others and show them what’s possible, but you are not doing it solely to hear others tell you how great you are. At the end of the day, you can lie to others, but you can’t lie to yourself.


Why You Should Never Be Ashamed To Go To The Gym

Good morning everyone, this is Demetrius from DRichFitness. Today I want to talk about a topic that isn’t often addressed by the bigger names in the fitness game. This may be due to the fact that these men and women have been going to the gym so long that they don’t remember how it feels to be “out of their element”. It could also be because they have an image to maintain and want the perception that they have always been the man (or woman). I have no image to maintain, and even when my name blows up I am secure enough in myself to open up to my audience. I mainly am addressing the gym/bodybuilding crowd, but you can adapt this message even if you train in a sports based gym or do anything where you are exposed to the general public.

To give a little background on myself, I am 25 years old and have lifted weights since I was 13.

I played football and wrestled in high school, and I recently (January) joined a mixed martial arts gym and started training Juijitsu.

My love for bodybuilding led me to going to the local gym when I was 15 years old. I remember seeing professional bodybuilders, college athletes, and super in-shape people who just loved to work out.

It took me a few months to get used to being in a new environment. Some of the things I had to adapt to were:

-The loudness of the gym

-People that like to size you up

-People asking you what you do to build a certain muscle group (I’ve always had pretty good arms and a wide back.)

Looking back on it now, it seems pretty silly but the thing I want you to take away from this experience is that I continued to go to the gym even when I was out of my comfort zone.  This paid off in the form of gaining respect and admiration in and out of the gym, attention from the opposite sex, and increased athletic performance. A side benefit from this experience is that I gained self-confidence in the fact that I saw that I was able to set a goal and achieve it in spite of external situations.

Maybe you’re an athlete or martial artist instead of a bodybuilder.

I can also relate to you, because I am one of the “new guys” at my jiujitsu gym. A little backstory about this is I have been a big fan of combat sports since high school. In between serving 4 years in the military, 2 deployments, and going to college, my aspirations of learning martial arts started to fade.

I made excuses like:

“It’s too expensive” But I could afford it.

“I don’t want to be the new guy” But everyone was the new guy at some point.

“I don’t want to get submitted by a woman” And it happened more than once.

The turning point came around the first week of January when I decided that I didn’t want to be the 30-year old who wished he had started in his 20s.

The funny thing is that a lot of people joined the gym when I did, so I’m not the newest person nor the least experienced. I do get destroyed by the upper belts, but I can see improvement and I am able to hang with a lot of the people that are my rank and slightly above. Either way, Jiujitsu is a lot of fun and I am glad I started this year instead of letting another year pass me by.

The point of those two stories is not for me to brag or give myself props. The message I want you to take away is that I wouldn’t be who I am today if I had let fear stop me from doing the things I want to do with my life.

Maybe your goals don’t include a gym or getting into shape, but I have the knowledge to help you with that if that is what you want.

You can still use this mindset if your goal is to go to college, or get a better job, or even start your own business. The process is going to involve you having to take a leap of faith and believing in yourself. Some of your friends and family members might even doubt you, but your desire for achievement must be higher than your desire for external validation. These same people will tell you how they believed in you the whole time once you do achieve your goals (go figure).

There is nothing to fear, and you will most likely love going to the gym once you adapt to it and start making the progress that you want in your physique. Once you have this momentum going it will become easier to stick to your new, better habits than to fall back into your old, unproductive habits. As always if you like the message, subscribe, like, and comment. I’m out.


Protein Supplements Are a Waste of Money

Hello subscribers and new readers, this is Demetrius from DRichFitness. In my last post, I discussed fat burners and how the are not the end-all, be-all when it comes to permanent weight loss. Check it out if you already haven’t. Today I am going to be talking about protein powder, and how it benefits you even when all of these fitness gurus would have you believe it is a waste of money. As always, I am not a sponsored athlete, a doctor, or medical professional. Everything I say is based on my experiences and research.

The supplement industry does a great job of convincing you that you need their products in order to achieve your dream physique or fitness levels. The truth is anyone that who is an exceptional athlete or has an amazing physique has put years into building themselves into that person. It doesn’t happen overnight. The disconnect between people’s expectations from the advertisements and what they achieve from using protein powders is that they see these exceptional people and think that the only thing they did to get to that point is taking the supplements in the picture. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll be the first to admit that I used to think the same way before I understood that everything has a process.

With all of that being said, protein powder is a convenience. It is similar to a multivitamin in that if you already receive enough protein through your diet, then you don’t need to consume additional protein through supplements. At the same time, preparing meals comes with costs. First, there’s the cost of buying the meat (or other protein sources), which is steadily increasing. Then you have to prepare it before you can eat it. This time could be used to do other things, and can really start to add up if you are someone who eats 4-6 meals per day. You also have to take into account that protein sources have different digestion times in the body. For example, beef takes a long time to digest compared to something like chicken or fish. Lastly, once you have finished preparing and eating your food, you must wash the dishes and put them away.

All of these factors are why you would want to invest in a good protein supplement. Cost per serving of whey protein compared to that of other traditional protein sources is cheaper in many cases. There’s also less preparation and cleaning time, even if you’re someone who has to blend all of their shakes in a blender. Whey protein sources containing isolate and hydrolysate are going to be faster absorbed than your concentrate and casein proteins, because they have gone through a refinement process that makes them easier to digest. This means you are able to get a good amount of protein into your body quickly to jump start the recovery and muscle building process.

Since we know that this is a long process, we are not going to look at it on a daily basis, but instead on a monthly and yearly basis. No, this is not an anabolic steroid so you are not going to gain 20 pounds of muscle per year doing this (you also may not want to if you are a non-competitive bodybuilder). At the same time, if you are able to build between 3-5 pounds of muscle per year for 10+ years, you obviously are going to greatly improve your physique. Another way to look at this is that you are in this for the long-haul anyway, so you may as well do it the right way. The difference between two people who have been lifting for the same amount of time (minus differences in genetics) is that one person may be doing all of the right things (diet, supplements, training, rest) and the other person may not. This is what I believe separates me from most people in the gym. I’m not in the top 1% yet, but I know I can be if decide to take it to that extreme.

At the end of the day, protein powders are not anabolic steroids, but they can help jump start the anabolic (muscle building) process. If you are a natural bodybuilder, don’t compare yourself to those on enhancements. Do accept that you can still build a great physique, but it takes longer and you have a smaller margin of error. Let me know what you think in the comments. I’m out.


There is No Such Thing As a Fat Burner

Good afternoon everyone. I am Demetrius from DRichFitness. Today I am going to be talking about fat burners and weight loss pills, because I see that many people are misinformed about them and the role they play in their quest to lose weight and maintain a healthy (and subjectively aesthetically pleasing) body. I don’t currently take fat burners with the exception of caffeine pills that I take for a daily energy boost, but I do remember a time where I feel victim to the marketing hype and propaganda that we all see in the fitness and bodybuilding community. There is no such thing as a fat burner in the traditional sense, and I am going to explain why.

The first thing I am going to touch on is that people take “fat burners” for a reason. We feel that we don’t measure up to a standard that 95% of the population don’t and can’t measure up to in the first place. Most of the advertisements for these pills come through fitness and bodybuilding magazines or on television commercials. These advertisements generally use people that have top-tier genetics, and in many cases, use anabolic steroids and other physique enhancing drugs to attain the physiques they display. I’m all for letting people do what they want with their bodies if it doesn’t negatively affect anyone else, but I find it disingenuous to take drugs but tell someone you look the way you do simply through hard and the supplements you are selling to them.

At the same time, I am not saying everyone falls into this category. Some people are already in good shape but want a little edge to drop the last 5-10 pounds to put themselves into the top 10 percentile. If you look at the picture of myself I posted of me as a teenager a few posts back you would probably agree that I fell into this category. Truthfully, I never needed them to begin with, but being a young, impressionable teen, I bought right into the hype. Some of the “fat burners” I have taken are the original Hydroxycut Hardcore, Super HD, and Animal Cuts. These products all do their job from the standpoint of giving you alot of energy, and you can lose weight, often times in the form of water, but a “natural” product can only do so much for you, which brings me to my next point.

Nothing works if you are consuming more calories than you are burning off.

A caloric deficit is literally the only way to lose weight. Different macronutrients do play different roles in the body, but that is not what I am talking about right now. The problem I have with these companies is the fact that between the extremely ripped models and propaganda in these ads,  I can see why the uninformed consumer would think that a pill is the answer to their weight problems. The next time you pick up a magazine, I want you to really analyze how much of it is useful information, and how much is supplement companies trying to sell their products to you.

A big part of business is to identifying a need in the market, and then creating and marketing a solution to potential customers. In other words, you are helping people solve their problems. I can respect this from an entrepreneurial standpoint, because the supplement industry has become a billion dollar industry. The issue with this is that most people who are into bodybuilding and fitness have a warped view of what is attainable naturally. Worse than this is the fact that some people think they need these supplements in the first place. I’m not saying fat burners don’t have their place, but generally I would only recommend them if you already have your diet in order, otherwise you are just wasting your time and money.

In conclusion, no pill can make excess weight fall off of you. If it does, it is only short term, and rest assured you will gain it back if you don’t practice the correct dietary habits. There is a lot of misinformation out there and supplement companies use your ignorance and insecurities against you to make a profit. Some weight loss pills do have legitimate ingredients in them that are proven to facilitate weight loss, but this is a small drop in the bucket in the grand scheme of weight loss. This is also assuming that you have you training, diet, sleep, etc. all in order to best make use of this slight edge that normally wouldn’t be there. Don’t feel bad if you have bought these products in the past, because at least now you have a little insight as well as a realistic expectation for these products. Tell me what you think in the comments section. I’m out.


Why Multivitamins Are Beneficial

Disclaimer: I am not a doctor or healthcare professional. Consult your primary physician before starting any new dietary or strength training program.

Hello all, today I’m going to be talking about why multivitamins are useful for anyone who takes their health and performance seriously. Let me start by saying that I am not sponsored(yet) by any nutritional or supplement companies, so I am completely impartial to any brand or supplement. I am simply giving my informed opinion based on years of research and experimentation on myself. Public perception of multivitamins generally falls to one of two extremes: those who think they are a waste of money and those who take them because someone else told them they work. The truth lies in between both assumptions. Vitamins benefit you if you need them.

Most people do not consume the optimal amount of nutrients they need through their diet. This doesn’t mean that you can’t feel alright or perform decent in your sport or in the gym, but nobody wants to be average (at least I hope you don’t if you are a reader of mine). The reason for this is because food loses nutrients based on the way you prepare it. You would also have to eat large amounts of other types of foods in order to meet your nutritional needs for certain nutrients. I may do an article about this in the future.

Another thing to consider is that dietary guidelines are based on the average sedentary person. This person probably goes to work and sits at a desk for 8 hours, clocks out, and goes home and sits in front of the television before going to sleep and repeating the process the next day. As a health conscious person who strength trains, does cardiovascular exercise, and plays sports, you obviously exert more energy (and nutrients) through your physically demanding lifestyle.

With these factors considered, you see that you are in even further a nutritional deficit compared to your sedentary counterparts. Since I am speaking in general, I can’t recommend the same amount of vitamins for everyone because we all lead different lives, with varying factors that differentiate us from one another. I do advise to get blood testing from your doctor to see what deficiencies(if any) that you have and then work towards correcting them. Keep a log where you track what you take on a daily basis and how your feel. After a few months go back to your doctor and get retested to see if you did the right things.

Some of the physiological benefits of taking a multivitamin include:

-increased immune system

-increased bone density

-increased cognitive function

-improved energy levels

-lowered blood pressure

As you can see, multivitamins can offer you a multitude of benefits. This is, of course, predicated upon you being deficient in one or more vitamins. It’s easy to write multivitamins off as a “health in a bottle” scam to take your money, but in reality that is not the purpose of vitamins. They are simply an addition to (the definition of supplement) an already decent diet and health oriented lifestyle.  Yes those cigarettes and beers can reverse the positive effects of your lifestyle. Most of us are not getting the nutrients we need through our diets due to processing and the fact that we would require large amounts of food to consume and retain the nutrients we need to be at our best. Give them a try and what benefits they can bring into your life.


Why You Need Rest Days

Good afternoon readers and new readers of my blog. Today I will be talking about why you need to incorporate rest days if you want to continue to see progress in your fitness. By fitness I mean your physique if you’re into bodybuilding, as well as speed and strength if you’re an athlete. I have experience in all three areas so I can offer my advice rather than citing something I read in a textbook. This topic is actually bigger than one post, so I am going to talk about the immediate benefits you will notice from day one of using rest days in your routine.

Coming from a football and competitive wrestling background, I can understand the mindset of wanting to constantly improve. We want to outwork our opponent outside of competition, so that we will destroy them inside of it. This is a winning mentality, and it’s natural to think that more exerted effort equals greater results.  The catch 22 with this logic is that you will receive results but only if you are able to recover from your workouts. Recovery is a pie chart, and rest days are a big piece of the pie. If you are an experienced lifter and or athlete, you may notice that you feel fatigued throughout the day. The fatigue comes in the form of an increased heart rate, irritability, soreness, etc. All of these things are a normal part of training, so what you need to be aware of is a drop in performance. For example, if you find yourself lifting less weight or doing fewer reps, it’s a sign of fatigue. If you are an athlete the signs you want to look for are loss of endurance and feeling “off”.

The tricky thing about rest days is there is no one size fits all approach. Some people need more days off. Others need fewer days off. Another thing to think about is that if you are active on your rest days, you are not recovering to your full potential. For example, I go to jiujitsu classes several times a week and I also lift weight and do cardio. I sometimes do both in the same day and I have noticed that even when I space them out, they still conflict to a degree with one another. If I lift first, I am not 100% on the mats, and if I do jiu-jitsu first, I am not as strong or durable in the gym. I feel my best when I do them on separate days, with rest days during the week. Again everyone is different, but at some point you are going to need to take a day or two off because the body must recover before it gets stronger and adapts to what you are asking it to do.

That’s it for now. As always, I am not a doctor or medical professional. I’m just a guy that reads and experiments on myself. Let me know what you think in the comments. Like, comment, subscribe. I’m out.